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Ukwethembeka kungukuziphatha okuhambisana nezindinganiso zeqiniso nobulungiswa. Kungabuye kuqondwe njenge- inhlonipho ngeqiniso namalungelo abanye. Ukuthembeka kusho ukuba qotho, ukungagunci, hhayi ukuba nezisusa ezingezinhle ekusebenzelaneni nabanye abantu; ungasebenzisi ithuba lobuthakathaka obukhona noma izimo zokululazeka kwabanye abantu.
I- ikhwalithi yokwethembeka Kuyondliwa ngezimfundiso zabadala bethu, esizithola ekhaya zisencane, kepha futhi nangesibonelo semihla ngemihla: yingakho kubalulekile ukuthi umphakathi wonkana uthathe ukubaluleka kokwethembeka njengenani.
Lapho sifunda njengezindaba zokuthi umshayeli wetekisi uthole isikhwama semali emotweni yakhe wasibuyisela kumnikazi waso, sihlanganyela esenzweni sokwethembeka, esincomekayo kakhulu futhi lokho kufanele silingise. Kodwa iqiniso lokuthi lokhu kuyizindaba kusitshela ukuthi akuvamile; ngakho-ke, ukwethembeka kubukeka njengokuhlukile kakhulu kunokujwayelekile.
Izibonelo zokwethembeka
- Uma umkhiqizo uthengiswa ngentengo ephansi kunokujwayelekile ngoba unephutha, tshela umthengi.
- Uma sibona ukuphanga noma ingozi, khombisa phambi kwamaphoyisa noma ijaji izinto njengoba sizibonile.
- Ukugcina izakhamizi zazi iqiniso (ababusi nezintatheli).
- Uma othile enza iphutha lapho esinikeza ushintsho, mtshele futhi ungagcini leyo mali, engahambelani nathi.
- Ungakhohlisi esivivinyweni, noma usize omunye osebenza naye ukuba akwenze
- Hhayi ukuqamba amanga kulwazi olunikezwe ngokuqhubeka.
- Vuma uma senze iphutha.
- Hlukanisa futhi wamukele ngokusobala ukufaneleka kwabanye, ikakhulukazi uma bengabonakala ngathi.
- Khokha ngesikhathi esifanele izibopho ezitholakele.
- Ungangeni esitimeleni ngaphandle kokukhokha ithikithi.
- Ungebi amandla kagesi emigwaqeni yomphakathi.
- Ungayemukeli imisebenzi esingeke sikwazi ukuyifeza, ngenxa yokushoda kwesikhathi noma amandla.
- Bika uma ngabe izinto zokuhamba zomphakathi zingekho ezimeni uma isetshenzisiwe futhi ingaba yingozi enkulu kubasebenzisi (abashayeli, abasebenzi bezobuchwepheshe).
- Vala izakhiwo ezingenayo imibandela yokuphepha maqondana nemililo (abahloli).
- Ungabeki amakhambi noma izifundo umuntu angazidingi (odokotela).
- Makufundwe ukuphrinta okuhle osezosayina inkontileka.
- Tshela isiguli ngobungozi obusebenzayo ngaphambi kokuhlinzwa.
- Buyisela izinto ezitholakele
- Xwayisa uma othile ethembele kithi ngomsebenzi futhi sazi kusengaphambili ukuthi ngeke sikwazi ukukucabanga.
- Musa ukuthenga ama-movie noma imidlalo yamavidiyo engekho emthethweni.
Abantu abathembekile
Ukuthembeka kusho ukwenza ngokulunga, ungaqambi amanga, ungathathi okungasikho okwethu, ungacabangi ngokuzibophezela esingenakukwazi ukukufeza, hhayi ngokudala okulindelwe okuyize komunye, ngamafuphi, senze ngendlela ebesingathanda ukuthi abanye benze ngayo nathi noma nabantu esibathandayo.
Qhubeka ngokwethembeka Kuyisinqumo somuntu siqu futhi kufakwa endleleni yokuphila yomuntu ngamunye; Yikhodi engabhalwanga kepha engunaphakade ehlala ikhona ekuziphatheni kwethu.
Inani lokwethembeka libalulekile ukuze libe khona ukwethembana nokuzwana phakathi kwabantu, kufaka phakathi indlela yokuphila ebumbene phakathi kwalokho okucatshangwa noma okushiwoyo nalokho okwenziwayo ekugcineni.
Yamukela amaphutha akho bese uqinisekisa ukuthi abantu besithathu abasolwa ngawo, ungahlanganyeli enhlebo noma ukugxekwa okuvela kwabanye abantu, qaphela futhi ukwazi ukugcina eminye imibuzo igcinwe, yiba okusobala ekuphatheni imali okungeyona eyakho, yiba ukuphendula futhi ungabi nesandla emaphutheni abanye abantu ukuthi kucacile phambi kwamehlo ethu kuyingxenye eyisisekelo yokwethembeka.
Ngeshwa, ukujeziswa ebusweni be- ubugebengu; ukuphakanyiswa kwe "ukuziphilisa" nempumelelo ye "Ama-Rogues" ukuthi bafeza izinto ngomzamo omncane, kanye nokukhuthazwa okuncane okutholwa yilabo abavikela imigomo yabo kanye nezinkolelo zabo naphezu kobunzima lokhu okungasho kubo.
