Ukuqala ukubhekisa ekuhlukumezeni naseudlame lwasekhaya, kufanele siqale sichaze umqondo wodlame ngendlela yalo ebanzi neyokuqala, ngoba kuzoba yilo esizolusebenzisa njengesethenjwa sokuchaza izigaba ezahlukahlukene zodlame.
UBUDLOVA: Kumayelana ne- a Ukuziphatha ngamabomu okudala ukulimala komzimba noma kwengqondo komunye umuntu. Imayelana nokuphoqa okuthile ngenkani, kumayelana nokuphoqa noma ukuthola okuthile ngenkani, kungaba yinto noma umuntu.
- Udlame ludinga isisulu nomenzi wobubi. Ngaphandle kodlame olubangelwe ngumzimba, udlame lungashiya imiphumela engokomzwelo kumuntu lapho lwenziwa khona, kanye nasemiphumeleni engokomzimba.
UDLAME LWASEKHAYA: Lolu hlobo lodlame lwenzeka ngaphakathi - ngaphakathi - kwesifuba somndeni. Ngokuvamile kuyindlela ejwayelekile yodlame, yize zimbalwa izehlakalo ezibikwa ngokwesaba noma ngamahloni.
- Ziqukethe izindlela ezahlukahlukene zokusebenzisa lolu hlobo lodlame, kungaba ukuhlukanisa umuntu, ukumsabisa, ukummangalela, ukuphika, ukusongela noma ukuhlukumeza ilungu elilodwa noma ngaphezulu omndeni.
Phakathi kwezindlela ezahlukahlukene lapho ubudlova basekhaya bungakhula khona, kukhona izingxenyana ezikhuluma ngomuntu ohlukunyezwayo nokuthi ngubani okucasulayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokuya ngokuhlukumeza okusetshenzisiwe, singakuhlukanisa futhi.
Udlame lomzimba: Umenzi wobubi usebenzisa ukwesaba nokuhlukumeza, ngendlela yokuthi akhubaze isisulu sakhe futhi abangele ukulimala emzimbeni, kungaba ngokushaya noma izinto, zombili ezitholakala endaweni noma ezilethwe ngokukhethekile. Ezimweni eziningi zodlame lwasekhaya, abazali yibo ababhekene nokugqugquzela lolu hlobo lokuhlukumeza futhi, yize kukuncane, amacala abuye abonwa lapho kungowesifazane oshaya izingane zakhe nabayeni bakhe. Abanye ochwepheshe baveze ukuthi ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba kuhlobene nokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzwelo nangokwengqondo.
Udlame lwezocansi: Kucaciswa amacala lapho umenzi wobubi efuna umuntu ohlukunyezwayo (emncisha inkululeko yakhe) ukuthi abe nobudlelwano bezocansi noma ukuxhumana kwanhlobo, ngaphandle kwemvume yelinye iqembu. Ngokuvamile, umhlukumezi uhlose ukucasula nokubusa omunye umuntu, futhi kulesi sigaba, singathola izinhlobo ezilandelayo zodlame lwezocansi:
- Ukulala nesihlobo, ngokwesibonelo, yilolo hlobo lobudlelwano bezocansi lapho abantu abahlanganyela noma behla egazini elifanayo bekhulelwa ubudlelwano nemvume yazo zombili izinhlangothi, noma ngabe iyiphi indlela okwenziwa ngayo lokho kuqiniseka.
- Ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansiKwenzeka lapho umuntu edinga omunye ukwanelisa izidingo zakhe emkhakheni wezocansi, kungaba ngokuveza izitho zangasese noma ukuthinta imizimba yakhe ngaphandle kwemvume yakhe. Lolu hlobo lokuhlukumeza lungenzeka noma kuphi, hhayi kuphela emndenini. Ukwephulwa kukodwa kwenziwa lapho isisulu simelana nokungena, kungaba ngumenzi wobubi, izinto noma izingxenye zomzimba wakhe; kungaba ngesitho sangasese sowesifazane, indunu noma umgodi womlomo. Leli qiniso lenzeka endaweni yokwesaba, okuhloswe ngayo ukuvimbela isisulu ekwenzeni isikhalazo esihambisanayo, ikakhulukazi uma kuyilungu lomndeni elingumhlukumezi.
Ubudlova obungokomzwelo: Njengoba igama lalo lisho, lilimaza imizwa; okungukuthi, ngokuthotshiswa, ukuthukwa, ukusongelwa kanye / noma ukunqatshelwa, umenzi wobubi ulimaza ilungu lomndeni wakhe. Lokhu kudala isisulu umuzwa wokungavikeleki obonakala ngqo ekuzethembeni, kubo bobabili abahlupheka mathupha, njengalabo ababona lolu hlobo lodlame. Umhlukumezi uvamise ukuphatha izisulu ngokomzwelo, efuna ukuzibonakalisa njengomvikeli bese eqhubeka nokuqhubeka ngendlela enobudlova.
Udlame lwezomnotho: Isihloko singadala ukungalingani kwesisulu, sisole imali ethe xaxa yezezimali noma sisebenzise leso simo, ukubeka unswinyo noma ukususa izimpahla ezibonakalayo. Kubhekwa futhi njengodlame lwezomnotho lapho indoda ingafuni ukuthi unkosikazi wayo asebenze noma okuphambene nalokho, ngisho nangaphandle kwemvume yakhe. Lolu hlobo lodlame, mhlawumbe, lubonakala kakhulu kunokwenyama, ngoba lezi zinsongo, ukuthukwa namacala kwenziwa ngasese nasesidlangalaleni.
- Udlame lwezingane, ngokwesibonelo, kungukuhlukunyezwa okuhlala njalo kwabancane endlini futhi ngaphakathi kwayo kungahlukaniswa amaqembu amabili:
- I- udlame olusebenzayo Kungenye lapho ingane ihlukunyezwa ngokocansi, emzimbeni noma emoyeni.
- I- ubudlova obungenzi lutho Kwenzeka lapho umuntu eshiywa futhi lokhu kungaba ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo. Izingane ezibona udlame emakhaya nazo zibhekwa njengodlame lokungenzi lutho.
- Udlame emshadweni, Kumayelana nalolo hlobo lodlame olubangelwe ebudlelwaneni bezothando. Ngaphakathi kwayo, sithola ifayela le- ukuphathwa kabi kwabesifazane noma udlame lobulili, okubandakanya ukuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba, kanye nokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzwelo, ngokocansi noma ngokwezomnotho. I- udlame oluwela Imayelana nalolo hlobo lodlame olwenziwa ngokubambisana futhi kungenzeka futhi emzimbeni, emoyeni, ocansini noma kwezezimali.
- Ukuphathwa kabi komuntu, okuvame ukukhuthazwa ngabesifazane, noma kunjalo ezimweni ezimbalwa, futhi kwenziwa ngendlela engokomzimba, engokomzwelo, yezomnotho noma yezocansi.
- Ukuhlukunyezwa kwabantu abadala; Njengoba abesifazane bebhekwa njengobulili obuthakathaka, abantu abadala nezingane babhekwa njengeqembu leminyaka ebuthakathaka, ngakho-ke ukuhlukunyezwa kwabantu asebekhulile kungenzeka nasemndenini.
Ngeshwa, kulezi zikhathi, maningi amacala ahlobene nokuhlukunyezwa kwabesifazane. Kukhona nemiphakathi emhlabeni lapho abesifazane baphoqeleka ukuthi bashade nowesilisa obakhethile noma, okubi nakakhulu, uyabathenga. Yize kuyisiko lamazwe aseMpumalanga, ngaphakathi kwezwe laseNtshonalanga lolu luhlobo lodlame olubhekiswe ebulilini besifazane.
I- udlame lobulili ngokumelene nabesifazane kutholakale ubukhona obukhulu emithonjeni yezindaba, kanye nasempilweni yansuku zonke yomphakathi. Futhi lolu hlobo lodlame lwenzeka kubantu besifazane ngoba babhekwa njengababuthakathaka.
Noma yikuphi uhlobo lwamacala achazwe ngenhla odlame, kumele kubikwe, ukuze labo abagqugquzela lokhu kuhlukunyezwa nokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzwelo babanjwe, hhayi nje ukuzivikela, kodwa futhi babe yisibonelo lapho bebhekene namacala okuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili esikhathini esizayo.
