Ukubekezelelana kungu ikhwalithi yomuntu siqu esho ukuthi uyakwazi ukwamukela imibono, izinkolelo nemizwa yabanye, ukuqonda ukuthi ukwehluka kwamaphuzu emvelo kungokwemvelo, kuhambisane nesimo somuntu, futhi akunakubangela ukuhlukunyezwa kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo. Ukubekezelelana kuyinto esemqoka ekuhlalisaneni kwabantu nasekusebenzeni kwemiphakathi ephucukile, ebaluleke kakhulu empilweni yentando yeningi ngaphansi kohlelo lomthethosisekelo.
Umqondo wokubekezelelana ufakwe ngaphakathi kohlaka lwezici ezimbili ezihlukene. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, amandla okubekezelelana akhiwa ebuntwaneni nasebusheni njengengxenye yenkolelo eyinkimbinkimbi nohlelo lwevelu, futhi lisho iqiniso lokulalela nokwenza umzamo wokuqonda umcabango wenye, futhi ngokuyisisekelo, ukuyamukela njengento evumelekile njengeyethu. Abazali nothisha banendima ebalulekile kulokhu. Isikole kumele sibe yindawo yobuningi futhi othisha banesibopho esikhulu esibabophezela ukuthi basebenze kumkhuba wokubekezelelana usuku nosuku, ngokusebenzisa iziphakamiso zokufundisa futhi, futhi, ngokwesibonelo.
Ngasikhathi sinye, ukubekezelelana kuyisici esigijima emphakathini uma kukhulunywa ngaso izinqumo ezenziwa ngokuhlanganyela yimigwamanda yomthethosisekelo okuhambisanayo (abomthetho, isibonelo). Imiphakathi yentando yeningi yamanje ithatha ukubekezelelana njengenye yamafulegi abo amakhulu, ngaphansi komqondo oyisisekelo wokuthi ‘amalungelo womuntu ngamunye aphela lapho kuqala khona abanye', Ukufuna ngalesi siqubulo ukwenza ukuhlangana okunempilo kwenzeke.
Kweminye imibono kutolikwa ngokuthi lokhu akuqinisekisi ngokuphelele ukubekezelelana, ngoba kwesinye isikhathi amaqembu anentshisekelo enkingeni ethile awekho esimeni sokulinganisa. Isibonelo, kunemiphakathi eyamukela ukuphazanyiswa kokuzithandela kokukhulelwa neminye ekulahlayo, ibheka lo mkhuba njengecala: kulokhu ilungelo lowesifazane lokunquma ngomzimba wakhe nangelungelo lokungqubuzana nempilo, futhi impela Kunzima ukuxazulula ezingeni lokubekezelela lapho ubhekene nezinselelo ezinkulu kangaka zokuziphatha.
Izibonelo ezilandelayo zikhombisa izimo ezibonisa izindlela zokubekezelelana:
- Esikoleni, kubantu abanenani lokufunda elihamba kancane
- Nalabo abathi ezinye izinkolo
- Ngalabo abanesimo esihlukile sezomnotho
- Nalabo abanemibono eyehlukile yezepolitiki
- Ngemuva kokuthola ukuphawula okungekuhle.
- Ngokwehluka kukhetho lwezocansi.
- Lapho ubhekene nezinkinga zabanye abantu, noma ngabe zibonakala zingabalulekile.
- Ngabantu abanemvelaphi ehlukile yobuzwe.
- Kubhekiswe kubantu ababengenalo uqeqesho lwemfundo oluhamba phambili.
- Nethimba lomsebenzi, ngisho nokuba ngumphathi nomuntu ophethe.
- Ngabantu abakhubazekile.
- Uhulumeni uzobekezelela uma evumela inkululeko yabezindaba nemibono.
- Umbuso uzobekezelela uma uvumela inkululeko yokukhonza.
- Umbuso uzobekezelela uma uvumela ukusebenza kwemiphakathi ngokuvikela izintshisekelo ezithile (ngokwesibonelo, ezemvelo).
- Emahhovisi omphakathi noma ezitolo zabantu asebekhulile, izikhathi zabo ngokuvamile ezingahambisani nezabantu abasha nabakhuthele.
- UMbuso uzobekezelela uma wamukela ilungelo labantu bobulili obufanayo lokungena emshadweni womphakathi.
- Omama nobaba babhekise ezinganeni zabo ezisakhula, ezivame ukwamukela izikhundla zokulwa.
- Ngaleso sikhathi, ukuqedwa kobugqila kwakuyindlela ecacile yokubekezelelana
- IZizwe Ezihlangene ziyisibonelo samazinga okubekezelelana afinyelelwe emhlabeni
- Ukuphathwa Kwezobulungiswa kuzobekezelela uma kuthatha inkathazo ukulalela amaqembu ngaphambi kokukhipha.
