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I- ukwethembeka Ikona uhlobo lokuzinikela noma ukwethembeka komuntu enqubeni ethile, engahlukahluka kakhulu: ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu (ubungani, uthando, ukushintshana), uMbuso noma isizwe, umbono, umphakathi noma isibalo sabaphathi.
Awusekho umqondo ophathekayo wokuthi yiziphi izinhlobo zezinto umuntu angathembela kuzo, kepha yi value laziswa kakhulu emiphakathini eyehlukene yabantu, okuyixhumanise nenhlonipho, ukuzibophezela ezwini lakho, ukuthanda izwe nokubonga.
Ngaleyo ndlela, umuntu uqotho lapho ebuyisela lokho akutholile ngendlela efanele, lapho engafulatheli emphakathini ahlala kuwo, noma lapho ehlonipha uthando lwabo ngokuzinikela okulinganayo. Izimo zengqondo eziphikisanayo zihlotshaniswa ngokunengqondo nokungathembeki, ukukhaphela noma ukuhlazeka.
Bhekafuthi: Izibonelo Zobuhle Namaphutha
Umehluko phakathi kokuthembeka nokwethembeka
Ngenkathi le mibono emibili ifana futhi ivame ukuphathwa ngokufana, ayifani. Ngenkathi ukwethembeka kukhomba ukuzibophezela okugcwele kumuntu, ikakhulukazi ngezizathu zothando, ukwethembeka kukhomba imbangela noma inhloso ukuthi ingaba nkulu kunomuntu.
Yini enye, ukwethembeka kusho ukukhethwa okuphelele, ngenkathi ungaba qotho kubantu abahlukahlukene nezimbangela ezahlukahlukene. Ungathembeka ngaphandle kokuthembeka, futhi ungaba qotho ngaphandle kokuthembeka, uyindida njengokuzwakala kwayo.
Izibonelo zokwethembeka
- Ukwethembeka ezweni lobaba. Izakhamizi zesizwe zifundiswa zisencane ukuzwa isibopho sokwethembeka nokwethembeka ezweni lazoUkuzibophezela okungaholela ekutheni banikele ngempilo yabo ezimpini noma lokho, ngombono, kufanele kubavimbe ekunikezeni amandla ezitha imininingwane noma izinsiza ezingaba yingozi ezweni labo. Ukukhwabanisa, empeleni, kungelinye lamacala abucayi kakhulu kumakhodi okujezisa futhi ngezikhathi zempi kwakujwayelwa ukujeziswa ngokufa.
- Ukwethembeka kwabashadikazi. Izinga lokuzibophezela elitholwe ekwakheni ubudlelwano obuzinzile njengombhangqwana lincike ezimisweni ezinjengokubuyisana kothando, ukuthembeka kwezocansi (ngokwesiko) nokwethembeka. Okokugcina kusho ukuthi abantu abakha lo mbhangqwana bahlala benelungelo lenhlalakahle yomunye ngaphezu kweyabo noma okungenani eyeyesithathu..
- Ukwethembeka emndenini. Lo mgomo wokulalela nothando lomndeni usebenze kahle kakhulu kuma-mafia ase-Italy wekhulu lama-20, ngokwesibonelo, ikhodi yabo yokwethembeka yayisho ukungalokothi ilimaze amalungu omndeni ofanayo. Kungumgomo wesizwe wokuzibophezela ekuvikeleni abanye abantu ukunqanyulwa kwabo kujeziswa ngokukhishwa inyumbazane..
- Ukwethembeka kunkulunkulu. Le ndlela yokwethembeka ayibambeki kangako futhi ichaziwe kunezinye, ngoba imayelana nokulalela nokuzibophezela komuntu ngamunye noma uquqaba maqondana nemigomo eqondisayo yohlobo oluthile lwenkolo, okumele imikhuba yayo icelwe uNkulunkulu yena. Ngakho-ke, Ngomcabango wenkolo, ukuthobela izimiso zokuziphatha zebandla lakho ukuthembeka ezimfunweni zoMdali phezu kwezifiso noma izidingo zakho..
- Ukwethembeka kuwe. Ukwethembeka kumuntu uqobo kuyisici esibalulekile ekuthuleni ngokwengqondo nangokomzwelo, futhi kubandakanya ukuzibophezela kulokho okufunwayo empilweni nangezindinganiso umuntu, anamathele kuzo, ngaphezu kwezimfuno zothando izihlanganiso ezigcina isikhathi. Lolu hlobo lokwethembeka kulowo onalo lusho umkhawulo wokuqagela, wokunamathela ezimisweni zakho futhi, ngamafuphi, uhlale uzithanda ngaphezu kwakho konke okunye..
- Ukwethembeka ebhizinisini. Yize abezamabhizinisi bengayilandeli imiyalo ethintekayo, lokhu bakwenza ngenxa yesimo esithile sokuziphatha, esihlukanisa osomabhizinisi abathembekile kwabangathembekile. Ukwethembeka ezwini lomuntu, isibonelo, noma ukubuyisela impatho ekhethekile nganoma yisiphi isilinganiso, kuyizindlela zokwethembeka ezihlonishwa kakhulu kwezamabhizinisi..
- Ukwethembeka kubangani. Ukwethembeka kubangani kubalulekile ekugcineni ubudlelwane obuhle bokuzwana. Abangane banamathela kukhodi engazwakali yokuzibophezela kokuphindisela, okubabheka "njengabakhethekile" phakathi kwabo bonke abantu abaziwayo, okungukuthi, abathembekile. Ukukhaphela lokho kwethemba ngokudalula izimfihlo, ukulimaza noma nganoma iyiphi enye indlela, kuvamise ukuwohloka kobungane futhi kuvame ukuzalwa kobutha..
- Ukwethembeka eqenjini. Kumalungu eqembu lezepolitiki kudingeka ukuthi bathembeke kunhloso, okungukuthi, ukuvikela nokulandela izinhloso zeqembu futhi bangalaleli lonke uhlangothi lwezepolitiki. Lokhu kuthembeka kungathathwa kweqiswe ngokweqile emibusweni yengcindezelo, lapho iqembu elilodwa libusa futhi nokusola kuphela kokungathembeki kungathwala izinhlawulo ezinzima kommangalelwa.
- Ukwethembeka kumholi ophakeme. Kohulumeni abazimele, lapho amandla enikezwa konke kumuntu oyedwa obuntu bakhe bukhulekelwa, Kuvamile ukubona izinhlobo zesijeziso nomvuzo osuselwa ekwethembekeni kumholi, okungukuthi, ngokungangabazeki ugcina imiyalo yakhe namacebo akhe. Lokhu kusebenza futhi emahlelweni enkolo aqondiswa ngokuqinile yisikhulu noma umholi wezenkolo.
- Ukwethembeka emigomweni. Izimiso zokuziphatha, ezepolitiki nezokuziphatha eziqondisa impilo nokusebenza komuntu ngokuvamile azikwazi ukuphuka nganoma yisiphi isikhathi esithile, noma ngabe zingakwazi (futhi zivame ukwenza) ukushintsha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi noma ukuzivumelanisa nesipiliyoni esitholwe eminyakeni edlule. Kodwa-ke, ukwenqatshwa kwale mibono ukuze kube lula kwezomnotho noma ukushintshanisa ngamandla kuvame ukubonwa njengesenzo sokuvukela nokungathembeki emigomweni ecatshangelwayo..
Ingakusebenzela: Izibonelo Zamanani
