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I- Imithetho Yezindlu yilezo ezilawula ukusebenza kwabantu emphakathini ohleliwe, ukuze abantu babelane ngendawo efanayo ngendlela enobunye, eyakhayo futhi elawulwayo.
Bayaziwa futhi ngokuthi izinkambiso zokuhlalisana komphakathi ngoba zingama-guarantors wokuthi abantu bayakwazi ukuzwana futhi babuswe yikhodi yokuziphatha ehambelana kakhulu noma kancane.
Lokhu akusho ukuthi izinkambiso zokuhlalisana ngeke zephulwe emphakathini munye noma ukuthi ukwephula lokho kuholela ezinxushunxushwini zenhlalo; Noma kunjalo, lapho umuntu omncane noma umphakathi unamathela emaphethini athile wokuziphatha okuvamile, kulapho izingxabano zabo zingalindelekile futhi kwenzeka njalo ukuxabana nokungaphatheki kahle kwabo phambi komunye. Futhi konke lokhu, uma kunikezwe ukuhlangana okulungile, kungaholela odlameni, ukudelelwa komunye noma ngisho nokuhlukana noma ukuphazamiseka komphakathi.
Phela isaga sithi "akekho umuntu oyisiqhingi", sisho lokho Ukuze sizuze empilweni emphakathini, kufanele sivumelane nezinga elithile elijwayelekile.
Lokhu akusho ukuthi lezi zinkambiso zibekwe etsheni: empeleni ziyashintsha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi futhi zithobele izinguquko nezimo ezintsha zokuphila zomphakathi ezizimisayo.
Izinhlobo zemithetho yokuhlalisana ndawonye
Singakhuluma ngezinhlobo ezintathu zemikhuba yenhlalo yokuhlalisana, ngokuya ngemigomo yayo eqondisayo:
- Izindinganiso ezivamile. Lezi yizinkambiso ezizuzwe njengefa, ezilawulwa ingqondo kanye nomhlangano (yingakho igama lazo) futhi ezivame ukwehluka phakathi kwemiphakathi namasiko ehlukene. Ukubingelela, ukugqoka, ukukhunjulwa kwemicimbi ekhethekile, ukuhleleka kobulili namasiko, ngezinye zezindawo lapho kubekwa khona le migomo. Ukwephula umthetho kuvame ukubhekwa njengokwedelela noma ukungahloniphi, kuya ngodaba olusondele.
- Izindinganiso zokuziphatha. Izinkambiso zokuziphatha ziphathelene nombono othile wokuhle nokubi, wokuziphatha kanye nokuziphatha okuvunyiwe emphakathini ngokumelene nalabo abalahliwe. Ngakho-ke, inkambiso yokuziphatha enikeziwe ingaphulwa kuphela ngezindleko zenhlalo emphakathini othile, kanti kokunye kungaba yinto yansuku zonke futhi engabalulekile.
- Izinkambiso zomthetho. Imikhuba yezomthetho, ngokungafani neminye, ibhalwe ngekhodi ebhaliwe ( imithetho) futhi bayaphoqelela: bayakujabulela ukuvikeleka kwezinhlaka zombuso ezibhekele ukuqinisekisa ukuthobela. Ngokuvamile, lezi yizinkambiso ezivikela inhlalakahle yamalungelo omphakathi noma abanye abantu futhi, ngakho-ke, zilawula ukuziphatha komthetho okwamukelekayo nokujeziswayo kuzo zonke izinhlobo zezindaba zenhlalo. Ukubaphula umthetho kubhekwa njengecala futhi kuthwala izinhlawulo eziqinile ngokohlobo lwecala elenziwe.
Lezi zinhlobo ezintathu zokujwayelekile zingangqubuzana futhi zingaba nokuhlukile. Umuntu angakhetha ukuthi yimiphi imihlangano azoyithobela, ithobele imigomo ethile yokuziphatha ekhethiwe, kepha akakwazi ukungalaleli ngokuya ngemithetho yomphakathi othile.
Ezimweni ezingekho ngaphansi kakhulu kwezinkambiso ezijwayelekile nezokuziphatha, ukusabela komphakathi kanye nokukhishwa inyumbazane kwezenhlalo kungaba yisijeziso esanikezwa ngumphakathi uqobo kumuntu owephula inkambiso, noma ukungafuni ukuzwana. Esikhundleni salokho, inkambiso yezomthetho isho ukujeziswa okuhlelekile futhi okuyisibonelo, okwenziwa ngamabutho omphakathi awuphethe.
Izibonelo zemithetho yokuhlalisana ndawonye
- Mboza izingxenye ezinamahloni. Le nkambiso yokuziphatha isebenza kuzo zombili izidumbu zamadoda nabesifazane, kepha emphakathini wethu wezinzalamizi uvame ukuba nesihluku kakhulu kuye. Umthetho ubeka ukuthi izingxenye ezibhekwa njengesizotha (ikakhulukazi izitho zangasese kanye nesinqe, kodwa futhi namabele abesifazane) kufanele zigcinwe zimbozwa ngaso sonke isikhathi ngaphandle kokusondelana.
- Ukuvikelwa kwababuthakathaka. Esinye sezimiso eziqondisayo zempilo emphakathini, sibeka ukuthi okuqine kakhulu kumele kugweme ukuxhaphaza ababuthakathaka nokuthi umphakathi kumele uvikele lokhu okulandelayo. Kungumgomo wobubele wokuziphatha okuhle futhi ngezinga elithile elisemthethweni, ngoba uMbuso ngaleyo ndlela uqinisekisa, ngokomqondo, ukuthi amalungelo ababuthakathaka awaphuliwe ngokujeziswa ngabanamandla.
- Umehluko walokho okwangaphandle kanye nokwakho. Omunye umyalo oyisisekelo wempilo ephucukile, obeka ibanga phakathi kwalokho umuntu anakho nalokho abanye abanakho. Leli banga alinakunqotshwa ngaphandle kokuthengiselana okuthile okulawulwa ngokujwayelekile, njengokuthenga, isipho noma isabelo, futhi ukwephula umthetho kuvame ukubhekwa njengecala: ukweba noma ukubamba inkunzi.
- Isibopho sokubingelelana. Ukubingelela kuyingxenye yemiyalo elandelwayo jikelele yesintu, futhi kuphethe lokho umuntu kufanele anikeze kulabo abahlangana okokuqala ngosuku isenzo sokubonisa: ukubingelela. Akubonwa kahle ukuthi umuntu uxhumana nabanye ngaphandle kokusebenzisa la mafomula amancane wokuhlonipha, futhi ukwehluleka ukuhambisana nawo kungenza umehluko empatho ayitholile. Futhi akubonakali kahle ukungaphenduli ekubingeleleni komunye futhi kuvame ukubhekwa njengesitatimende sokwedelela noma sobutha.
- Icala lobungqingili. Yize zivikelwe yimithetho yezomthetho yamazwe amaningi, izindaba zothando nabantu bobulili obufanayo zisengukuziphatha futhi zibhekwa njengokuziphatha kabi noma okucasulayo yimiphakathi eminingi yabantu. Lesi yisibonelo esihle sokwehluka phakathi kwensiza esemthethweni kanye nombono wokuziphatha womphakathi..
- Imikhuba yetafula. Kunezinhlobo eziningi zokuziphatha eziyalela ukuziphatha okuhle kwetafula, ngokuya ngomongo womphakathi namasiko. Ngakho-ke, isidlo sakusihlwa esisemthethweni siyophoqelela imikhuba eqinile, kuyilapho eyomkhaya ivunyelwe kakhudlwana. Lokhu kungadlula endleleni yokubamba okusikiwe, kuya ezimisweni eziyisisekelo ezinjengokuhlafuna ngomlomo wakho uvaliwe.
- Ukuhlonipha impilo. Amakhodi amaningi wezomthetho agodliwe kuHulumeni, ezimweni ezinhle kakhulu, ekuphatheni impilo nokufa emphakathini. Ukubulala ngokungenasihawu mhlawumbe yicala elinesijeziso esikhulu kunazo zonke izinhlelo zomthetho, ngoba kwephula umthetho oyisisekelo wokuphila emphakathini, okuwukubonga impilo yabanye njengeyakho. Lokhu, ngokusobala, akwenzeki kuyo yonke imiphakathi, futhi kuvame ukubulawa ngenxa yezizathu zezepolitiki, ezenhlalo, ezomnotho nezothando. Kodwa-ke, uhlaka lwezomthetho lomphakathi ngamunye lucabanga nangezijeziso ezizosetshenziswa kanye nendlela obuthi ubugebengu kufanele bujeziswe ngayo.
- Fihla ucansi. Ngenkathi imiphakathi yethu ibonakala igxile kakhulu kwezocansi, esinye sezimiso zokuziphatha esivame kakhulu ukubheka ukufihlwa kocansi, okumele kwenzeke ekusondeleni okuqinile kwabashadikazi. Lokhu empeleni kufanekiswa ngokuthi "kuyicala lokuziphatha komphakathi" kumakhodi amaningi wezomthetho.
- Yenza futhi uhloniphe umugqa. Ngokwazi ukuthi sonke ngeke sikwazi ukuthola izinsizakalo nezimpahla esizifunayo ngasikhathi sinye, isidingo somugqa, ulayini noma umugqa ubekiwe, okungukuthi, ukulinda ngokulandelana ithuba lethu lokufikaNoma ngabe kunakekelwa esitolo, ukugibela ibhasi, noma ukuya ekhonsathini.
- Ubude bezinwele. Umthetho ojwayelekile ngokuphelele uyalela, emazweni amaningi, ukuthi amadoda kufanele afake izinwele ezimfushane nabesifazane izinwele ezinde. Lo mthetho, owazuzwa njengefa kusuka ezikhathini eziqinile zokuziphatha, wenziwe waguquguquka izikhathi eziningi futhi yingakho namuhla kungenzeka ukugqoka izinwele ngendlela othanda ngayo, yize kuzodingeka futhi ubhekane nokuphendula kwalabo abaholela kulolo daba ngaphezulu abalondolozayo kunathi.
Ingakusebenzela:
- Izibonelo Zenkambiso Yomphakathi
- Izibonelo Zezenhlalo, Ezokuziphatha, Ezomthetho Nezenkolo
- Umehluko phakathi kukaNorm noMthetho
