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I- isizotha amandla omuntu umuntu angakwazi ngawo yazi futhi wamukele ukulinganiselwa kwakho nobuthakathaka bakho, ukuvumela abanye ukuthi benze ngendlela abacabanga ngayo, ngaphandle kwalesi sizathu kube kubi kakhulu kunendlela abebengabhekana nayo ngawodwana.
Umuntu othobekile azi ukulinganiselwa kwakhe nobuthakathaka bakhe, futhi enze ngokuvumelana nalokhu: akanazo izakhiwo eziphakeme, futhi akudingeki ukuthi akhumbuze abanye ngempumelelo yakhe nempumelelo yakhe.
A othobekile Unguye, cishe wonke umuntu oxhumana naye, ungumuntu omuhle. Lokhu kusho ukuthi isimo singangena embuthanweni lapho umuntu othobekile enconywa kakhulu, futhi uma ukuncoma kusebenza ngokuthobeka kuzodunyiswa kakhulu.
Ingakusebenzela:
- Izibonelo Zamanani
- Izibonelo Zama-Antivalues
- Izibonelo Zokwethembeka
Ngokuvamile, ukuthobeka kuchazwa njenge- ukuphikisana nokuzikhukhumeza noma ukuzikhukhumeza: ukuthobeka-ke, ubuhle obubonakala ngezikhathi zokuqhuma noma lapho kufinyelelwe impumelelo lapho umuntu engashintsha isimo sakhe sengqondo noma aphikelele kulokho ababenakho ngaphambi kwakhe.
Kungakho kungalungile ukuthi phakathi kwazo zonke izimfanelo ezinhle, ukuthobeka kungenye yalezo okunzima ukuzithola ngomlomo, futhi kumele kufundwe ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ngokunembile lapho lowo mzuzu wokuchuma ufika.
Omunye wemithombo esemqoka yokuthobeka ngukuthi inkolo, ngoba ubukhulu nobunkulunkulu bukaNkulunkulu kuleyo ndawo abufinyeleleki kubantu. I-Christian Bible iyaphikelela ezikhathini eziningi maqondana nokuthobeka, futhi isimo sikaJesu Kristu lapho kubalulekile ukuze sikuqonde.
Kufanele kubhekwe lokho ukungabikho kokuziqhenya nje akusikho ukuqaphela ukuthobeka, futhi kunezimo eziningi lapho, ngenhloso yokuthobeka, ugcina uzilimaza wena noma abanye. Umuntu ongakwazi ukwabelana ngempumelelo yakhe nabanye, ngenxa yokuthi kungenzeka alimaze ukuziqhenya kwalabo abangakutholanga, akathobekile futhi kufanele ahlole ubungani babo.
Kwenzeka okufanayo nakulabo abazizwa benecala ngempumelelo abanayo, noma bangayazisi imizamo abaye bayenza ukuyizuza. Kuhle ukusebenzisa ukuthobeka Akazincishi yena uqobo ngokubona umzamo wakhe, noma ngokuhlanganyela izinjabulo zakhe: umane azazise njengoba nje ekwazi ukwazisa abanye.
Bhekafuthi: Izibonelo Zobuhle Namaphutha
Izibonelo zokuziphatha okuthobekile
Nazi izibonelo zokuziphatha okwaziwa njengezenzo zokuthobeka:
- Buza abanye umbono wabo ngezinto ezahlukahlukene.
- Bazisa labo abanekhono kakhulu esifundweni, bese ucela usizo uma kunesidingo.
- Ungagxili empumelelweni etholakele.
- Lahla ukwesaba ukwenza amaphutha.
- Bona abantu abakusizile ukuthuthukisa amakhono.
- Vuma lapho kukhona okuthile ongakuqondi.
- Zibonele amaphutha akho.
- Ungaziqhathanisi nabanye noma ungenasidingo, ucabanga ukuthi wonke umuntu uhlukile.
- Nikeza ababhali beqiniso umbono weqiniso.
- Vuma ukuthi unephutha.
- Ukwazi ukuthi ungalahlekelwa kanjani, ezimweni ezahlukahlukene zempilo.
- Ungathathi isikhathi ngasinye njengesinye samandla, lapho okuqine kakhulu kunabo ababuthakathaka: ukuvumela ukwahlulelwa kwabanye kuvame ukuvumela wonke umuntu.
- Qaphela izono zakho.
- Ukuzizwa kabi uma unesikweletu esingeyona eyakho.
- Yazi ukuthi kuhlale kunokuningi okufanele ukufunde.
- Yabelana ngolwazi olufundile.
- Lapho uphumelele, zibeke lapho wawukhona ngaphambi kokwenza lokho.
- Yiba nempumelelo, ngaphandle kokuziqhayisa.
- Yabelana ngomusa, uma unikezwa, nalabo ababelana ngesikweletu.
- Zimisele ukulalela abanye ezingxoxweni, ngaphandle kokuba ubandlululo kumhlinzeki womqondo.
Ingakusiza
- Izibonelo Zamanani
- Izibonelo Zamanani Amasiko
- Izibonelo Zokuzwela
- Izibonelo Zokwethembeka
- Izibonelo Zama-Antivalues
